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Why Alumni Are Important in Education: It’s Not the Reason You Think

In most of our experiences, the word “alumni” was only mentioned in the context of hosting, attending, or, most commonly, skipping a class reunion. If you work in private or independent school world or in higher education, the word “alumni” is also regularly paired with the word “giving,” as institutions think through their development strategies. So as a person who attended public schools K-12, except for high school classmates posting a reunion plan on Facebook, I don’t hear from my schools. It is only my college alma mater that reaches out to me. I greatly valued the education I received from my elementary, middle, and high schools, but my connection to them only exists in my memories. But as I consider schools and the process of education as a whole, I think most institutions underestimate the power and importance of their alumni. As a school committed to helping students discover and cultivate their unique gifts and talents to prepare them for a holy vocation in the world, I believe there is value in continuing and cultivating the relationship after graduation.

The Power of Alumni for Teachers

I often talk about how an important attribute to develop as a teacher is a sense of delayed gratification. Teaching can be a grind. Being in a room with a unique blend of individuals which changes for Lower School teachers year after year and for Upper School teachers not only bell after bell but year after year is a challenge. Depending on the age of the student one teaches, the problems span a wide spectrum of behaviors and attitudes. Sometimes we forget that we didn’t start out as the people we are right now but that we are all in a process of becoming. And as life long learners and educational professionals, we are hopefully continuing to become the more beautifully developed individuals we will be in a year or a decade from now. But sometimes our former students reside in our heads as they used to be. When educators have the opportunity to see their students years and even decades later, they are able to see the fruit from the seeds they planted years ago. The struggle of teaching and learning that sometimes frustrates an educator seems worth the extra effort when they see who their students have become. When the hyperactive immature student who was always on the brink of turning your classroom into the island in Lord of the Flies returns as a mature adult making an impact in the world, not only do you feel proud of them and see that there was a pay off to all the effort. It also creates a bit more patience for the current student who might not be quite as compliant as you would like. And if you teach long enough, you may have the benefit of calling alumni who as adults become advisors and even friends. It’s hard to imagine that the freshman sitting in your class might one day be someone you call for legal advice or insight on changing technology or whose novel you might read for entertainment. But that is the power of alumni for teachers.

The Power of Alumni for Students

For our current students, the world of school is often a confusing place. We are not always the best at helping them see how what we are doing connects to the “real world.” I used to feel offended when a student asked at the end of what I considered a brilliant class, “How are we ever going to use this?” I came to realize that the question was actually of ultimate importance and I needed to do a better job of helping students see why learning in my class was meaningful. I am not suggesting that there is a simple 1 to 1 pragmatic link of each and every lesson to something you will directly “use” later in life. But the relevant educator should always understand the links and connections between what we are teaching and the growth of the student into a person who can flourish in the actual world in which they will live. When our students see alumni who have been in the exact same seats where they are now, living out a dynamic vocation that links their unique gifts and talents with their unique calling, they are inspired by what could be for them in their own life.

We have so many alumni doing incredible things and their stories and experiences open the world to our students. Skylar Beavers and Jordynn Jenkin’s created the charity “Make a Kid Merry” as college students. Margaret Rogerson is a New York Times best selling author and Nathaniel Sizemore is a lawyer, entrepreneur, and now writes political thrillers.  Salen Churi taught in the University of Chicago Law School, practiced law, and then co-founded Trust Ventures which helps innovative start ups change the world. Dr. David Snyder is the Executive Director of Sustainable Medical Missions, training and supporting indigenous healthcare and faith leaders in underdeveloped countries to treat Neglected Tropical Diseases. Joni Brandyberry is the co-founder and director of programming for Cincinnati Urban Promise, bringing the love and light of Christ to Cincinnati youth. This is just the tip of the iceberg of our incredible alumni doing incredible things. They have the power to inspire our current students and give them the opportunity to dream of what the future might look like for them as they consider their calling.

The Power of Alumni for Culture and Legacy

One of the most rewarding and powerful experiences I’ve had in education is when our alumni come back to CHCA as teachers, coaches, and staff members. When you are able to see the incredible people that they have become and hear their desire to return so that they can invest in the next generation of students, to help create the type of learning environment and experience that they had, you are both moved and thankful to be part of this learning community. Alumni who seek to return have a vested interest in our mission and vision. They believe in the process and the people here. And they desire to help build the legacy of the school we are becoming. Engaging and learning from a colleague who was once your student is a rewarding moment. And because I’m also a CHCA parent, seeing my own children learn, grow, and be mentored by CHCA alumni is an example of education coming full circle. We currently have seven alumni as classroom teachers and a number of assistant coaches as well. These alumni are building into our culture now and will shape the culture of the future.

Another way our alumni build into our culture and legacy is when they become CHCA parents and their own children now occupy our classrooms and hallways. The conversations I have with them about their new experiences always bring together two things: the many new and innovative parts of our school that are very different from their time here and the parts of our culture that remain the same—the sense of community and the Christ-centeredness we continue to talk about and experience in this special place. And they are always excited to see the faces of teachers still here from their own time at CHCA.  

We love our alumni. They are a powerfully important part of our school community. And the lasting relationship between alumni and the school, and alumni and the people that work here is evidence of the learning community and the faith community we have created together.   We desire for this place to always feel like home to our alumni. So whether it is for specific big events and special occasions, as members of our faculty and staff, as parents bringing your own children to CHCA, or on a random Tuesday, totally unannounced just to say “hi,” we love to have our alumni engaged. Our school is better for it.

Why Parents in Christian Education?

When I was a kid, a parent’s role in school could be summed up by saying parents signed the report card you brought home each quarter, and maybe Mom would send in pink and red cupcakes for the Valentine’s Day party. Fast forward just one generation, and the role might look vastly different. A couple of years ago, an alumna shared a story from her Honors Calculus II class in college. In the large lecture hall, she observed one of her classmates bring her mom. This classmate had no special needs and yet Mom showed up for every lecture, nudging her daughter when a note should be taken and whispering to her when a question should be answered. Of all the roles in education, the role of the parent probably has the broadest spectrum, with varying perspectives on degree of involvement. While my wife and I both have teacher and administrative roles in education, we are the parents of three boys and have had to navigate the parent role as well. As a school, we often talk about the partnership between school and parent. I’d like to explore this relationship.

As we contemplate this topic of Why Parents in the context of education, we first need to revisit the earlier post of Why Christian Education and remember the overall purpose.  As I stated previously,

“[o]ur work in Christian education is to create engaged people who understand the world and their place in it; and it does that in order for them to find their unique purpose. I deeply believe that each student has a divine calling and their distinct assemblage of gifts, talents, personality traits, prepare them for a holy vocation in the world. We were created to do work in the world that creates shalom­—a wholeness that both restores the brokenness of the world marred by sin and gives our lives meaning, purpose, and fulfillment.”

If you are a parent and read the statement “each student has a divine calling,” substituting your child’s name for “each student,” you will realize that a parent’s role must be more than signing a quarterly report card and sending in cupcakes. And if you consider the concept that God has created each child with distinct gifts, talents, and traits and we are called to develop that child into an engaged person, prepared for their individual calling, you realize that a parent’s role is not to come do school for their child (or behind the scenes at home). If the purpose of Christian education is to develop well-rounded, critical-thinking, ethical, engaged people who understand the world and their place in it, the role of the parent is to foster this as well.

Certain disciplines are intended to be introduced and cultivated by parents, while the Christian school can offer secondary support in these efforts. The spiritual disciplines of prayer, reading, service, study of Scripture, worship, and meaningful fellowship are examples of habits initiated and driven by the family. Additionally, parents take the lead with character development, such as humility, perseverance, respect, responsibility, work ethic, grit, morality, as well as the Fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control). While parents and the family build the foundation for these traits and habits throughout a child’s growth and maturation, the school acts by supporting, reinforcing, and building on this pivotal groundwork.

As the parents honor their calling to develop their child, they rely on the expertise of the school to provide an opportunity for the child to master academic concepts, build critical-thinking skills, refine communications skills, and understand how to collaborate and interact with others as they grow to be Christ’s ambassadors in the world. The school creates a course of study from the earliest preschool years to senior year to build in age-appropriate ways the knowledge and skills in students to live engaged lives of significance beyond these walls. It is the parents’ role to support and encourage the school in this work. For example, if the teacher has assigned 30 minutes of reading each night, math problems to reinforce concepts, or a special history project, the parent can support the teacher’s efforts by maintaining a positive, encouraging attitude; providing a productive time and space for this work; and using discernment as to when and to what degree the parent offers advice, aid, or critique. Meet the Teacher Nights and parent-teacher conferences are great opportunities for parents to glean insight from the teacher on expectations of the student and productive roles for the parent.  Sometimes, the level of involvement needed is specified by the teacher and thus is easy to determine. Sometimes, that level takes more discernment on the part of the parent. Before getting involved in a specific situation, a parent should ask, “does my specific involvement here advance the goal of developing my child as an independent, engaged individual who understands the world and is honing his or her distinct gifts to be used for an ultimate purpose?” 

Growth in any area of life takes a degree of difficulty, challenge, stretching, and even failure. All of us as adults look back on our lives and readily acknowledge how struggles and failures were the monumental turning points that helped us become who we are today. But as a parent, too often my love and compassion for my children cause me to want to save them from hard things and struggle. This urge is actually counterproductive to my calling as a parent. We expect coaches to use practice time to push players, stretch them, and build their endurance and tenacity so that they are prepared to thrive in the game ahead. As educators, we also need to create a healthy level of struggle for students as well so that when they face new challenges, unforeseen obstacles and problems in real life that are “not like the ones on the test,” they can apply what they’ve learned to transfer knowledge and skills to new situations.  How as parents can we best support our students when school gets hard or when the workload gets heavy? And difficulty in school does not just mean the amount of work. The rigor and challenge of critical thinking is the hardest work of all.

On a final note, the Christian school community may offer parents an additional opportunity – that is an opportunity to exercise some of those same disciplines that they are instilling in their children. Often this community provides parent prayer groups, parent Bible studies, parent fellowship events, and parent service opportunities. Participation serves multiple purposes. One, these habits foster spiritual growth in the parents just as they would in any individual which not only draws us closer to Christ but gives us a better framework and lens from which to parent. Two, routine active engagement in these disciplines gives credibility to the parents as they seek to encourage their children to develop these disciplines themselves. Finally, and this cannot be emphasized enough, no one has the potential amount of access and influence on children as their parents. The research is clear on this. Scripture calls us to guard what we hear, what we see, and what is in our hearts. As parents, our children are often our captive audience, and we have a unique opportunity to daily ensure that our children are hearing words and seeing actions that demonstrate the Fruit of the Spirit in us.  As a person who has had the great honor of teaching Bible, theology, and faith development to young adults for over a quarter of a century now, I cannot overstate the correlation between a young person’s attitude toward faith and their perception of authentic faith in their parents. We have been given an incredible position and opportunity to shape our children’s openness to the work of God in their lives. Faith development in young people is not necessarily a straight line or an easy processes. They will likely have periods of doubt and distance, their paths may take detours and hit dead ends. It’s not a fixed procedure like a simple math equation. But seeing an authentic, even if imperfect faith life in parents creates an openness that carries forward beyond their time in our Christian academy. Your example matters!

So why parents? We desire to foster the best possible partnership between parents and the school because both are essential in the development of young people. As we often find in life, the answer sounds easy, but the execution is challenging.  Both parents and educators desire students who are flourishing. Let us continue to work arduously within our specific callings to advance this holy effort.

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Why Christian Education

I was a kid who liked school. As a young boy and even into my teen years, I understood that was not a thing you said out loud. But I liked to learn, was curious about lots of things, and I knew how to play the game of school. Ironically, back then I never would have imagined that I would spend my life continually studying in graduate school and later working in a school. School was an obstacle course to successfully navigate and complete. It was not a place to live your “real” life. And while I grew up in a devoutly Christian home and would always identify as a Christian, all of my education was in the public school system. I received an excellent education in the Milwaukee Public School system with the many passionate, dedicated teachers that helped develop me into a life-long learner. My life of faith grew and developed at church, and my mind developed in school. It seemed to be an effective system, and one I regularly touted. I did not experience a distinctly Christian education until post-secondary school when I attended Wheaton College. Now I am in my 27th year serving in a PK-12 Christian school where all my children have attended. Why Christian education?

Before describing the purpose of a distinctly Christian education, we should consider the purpose of education in the first place. We often think of education as filling heads with facts and ideas, a kind of knowledge collection. We measure success by grades and test scores, college acceptances, and ultimately the boon that comes from a “successful” career. But true education should do more than help us win at Trivia Night. A wholistic education should create an experience that forms us into fully developed human beings, who are well-rounded, critical-thinking, ethical, engaged people who understand the world and our place in it. That type of education cannot be measured on a standardized test. As we all know, outside of school there are rarely written tests of any kind, but there are problems to solve, people to communicate and collaborate with, and meaningful lives to live. Do our educational systems – public, private, or specifically Christian – prepare our students for human flourishing? We will look more at human flourishing and education in a later post.

As we then consider a distinctly Christian education, we build upon two principles.

1) All truth is God’s truth.  As far back as St. Augustine, in his work On Christian Doctrine, he states, “Nay, but let every good and true Christian understand that wherever truth may be found, it belongs to his Master” (II.18). If God is Creator and the creation reflects the One who created it, we should pursue a deep understanding of all things. For all the world is God’s and through our studies and investigations, we come to know reality and the One behind it.

2) Christ is central to all.  Most Christian schools talk about “Christ centeredness.” What this means is that we desire to ground our education in the person of Christ and understand that our place in the world is connected to our place in the greater story of Scripture. The Apostle Paul writes to the Colossian church that through Christ all things were made, in Him all things hold together, and it was through Him that God reconciled Himself to the world (1:15-20). In a Christian education, as we consider how our students are being formed as thinkers and flourishing people, Christ is both the unifying principle and the model of human engagement.

As a teacher, I always challenge myself to consider the final question in the end, So what?  Many times, I would finish a lesson and a brave student would ask that two-word question: So what?! What is the overall purpose of knowing; what’s the reason; what’s the use?  After early years of frustration, I realized it was the most meaningful question of all. So what is the end result of our work in Christian education? Our work in Christian education is to create engaged people who understand the world and their place in it; and it does that in order for them to find their unique purpose. I deeply believe that each student has a divine calling and their distinct assemblage of gifts, talents, personality traits, prepare them for a holy vocation in the world. We were created to do work in the world that creates shalom­—a wholeness that both restores the brokenness of the world marred by sin and gives our lives meaning, purpose, and fulfillment.

How do we educate in a way that inculcates these principles into our educational processes? In the next post, I will share our model of Theological Integration.

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